7 Surprising Japanese Etiquette Customs: What’s Not Considered Rude in Japan

Japanese culture is rich with precise etiquette, from the tradition of bowing to the art of handling chopsticks, and the etiquette of financial gifts at weddings and funerals to a respectful treatment of superiors. However, Japan also presents a spectrum of surprising behaviors that are not considered rude — contrary to customs in many other countries.

1. Raising Your Voice in a Restaurant

In Japan, attracting a waiter’s attention by calling out 「すみません」or “sumimasen” (excuse me) is a common practice. Whether seated near or far, the staff will zip right over to assist you.

2. Nudging in Crowded Trains And Subways

The packed nature of trains and subways means it’s often necessary to gently push to get on or off. It’s practical rather than rude, especially during the morning and night rush hours. You should say “sumimasen” to let people know you’re trying to get off and then make your way towards the doors. People will get off to make room for you.

3. The Absence of Tipping

Contrary to Western norms (or just US norms), Japan doesn’t practice tipping. Tipping can, in fact, be perceived as a demeaning gesture. Leave change behind, and you may find your server jogging after you to return it!

4. Not Holding Doors

In Japan, holding the door open for others, while not unheard of, isn’t necessarily commonplace. This isn’t indicative of rudeness, simply a cultural difference.

5. Softening a ‘No’

To avoid conflict, Japanese tend to deliver negative news or criticism diplomatically. Where a ‘no’ might be cruel, a ‘maybe’ or ‘it’s alright’ is a more polite alternative. Getting personal or see someone who looks like they’re having a bad day? Many would prefer a lighthearted approach rather than burden others with their troubles and just brush it off with a smile.

6. Dining on Sushi with Your Hands

While Japan is known for its chopstick culture, sushi is actually traditionally eaten by hand. Don’t worry about navigating those long sushi pieces with chopsticks, it’s completely acceptable to use your hands.

7. Slurping Over Noodles

The louder you slurp your noodles, whether hot or cold, the higher the compliment to the chef. So, prepare to slurp your udon, ramen, or soba without any reservation!
Don’t be startled by these customs on your next visit to Japan. Embrace the cultural differences and enjoy your trip.

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